An afternoon at the symphony is a wonderful adventure for families—there’s nothing quite like hearing a full orchestra play together! To make it enjoyable for everyone, here are a few friendly tips for helping kids feel comfortable while learning how to be great audience members.

1. Talk before the concert.

A little conversation before the music starts can make a big difference. Let your kids know that concerts are a special kind of “quiet time” where everyone listens carefully so the music can shine. You might say, 

“The musicians worked really hard to make this sound beautiful—let’s help them by keeping our bodies calm and our voices silent.”

For younger children, compare it to a storytime at the library or a movie theater—once the conductor takes the stage, it’s time to listen and watch. For older kids, you can explain that every sound in the hall carries—so even little whispers or footsteps can be heard on stage.

You might also talk about what to do instead of talking:

  • If something sounds exciting or surprising, smile, squeeze a parent’s hand, or take a quiet breath. 
  • If they have a question, encourage them to “save it for intermission” so they can whisper it to you later. 
  • For children who need to move, remind them it’s okay to tap fingers on their lap silently, or hold something small and quiet like a program or fidget stone.  

Most of all, frame the idea of quiet not as a rule, but as a way of helping the music shine. When kids understand they have an important role—helping everyone hear the magic—they often rise beautifully to the occasion.

 

2. Sit where you can make an easy exit.

If you’re bringing younger children, aisle seats or back rows can be a big help. That way, if someone gets the wiggles or needs a break, you can quietly step out and return between pieces.

 

3. What if your child starts making noise?

It happens! If your child begins to talk, cry, make noises or kick the seat in front of them, it’s best to quietly take a short break in the Kid’s Club.

The Kid’s Club is located through the lobby and past the bathrooms – away from the concert hall. Many families find that a quick walk or snack helps kids reset and return ready to listen again.

 

4. Save the talking and clapping for the right moments.

It can be hard to tell when a piece is truly finished—so if you’re unsure, wait for others to start clapping. A quiet audience helps the music’s softest and most magical moments reach everyone.

 

5. Celebrate together afterward.

Ask your kids what they noticed—the shiny instruments, the big sounds, the conductor’s movements. Applaud their good listening and talk about your favorite parts.

 

Learning concert etiquette takes time, and every visit helps children grow more comfortable. A little patience and preparation go a long way toward making the symphony a joyful experience for everyone around you—and a lasting memory for your family.